Hakeem Mcfarlane

Creator Of The Choose Yourself Movement

I am a dynamic public speaker dedicated to representing the Choose Yourself Movement on a global stage. My mission is to inspire individuals to prioritize their well-being and personal growth while equipping them with the tools to face challenges with resilience and confidence. Through engaging and thought-provoking presentations, I encourage audiences to cultivate healthy habits, embrace positivity, and recognize the transformative power of laughter—because a positive mindset begins when we learn to find joy in life’s moments.

Introduction

Author Of a Community Built On Accountability, Resilience, And Living Authentically

Hi, I’m Hakeem Mcfarlane. I’m here to remind audience that while life doesn’t come with an instruction manual, you can still ace the test with the right mindset, foundation, and yes, even a little humor.

Authenticity

Real, relatable stories of navigating life's curveballs.

Actionable Tools

Steps to create balance, accountability, and self-resilience.

Inspiration with a Dash of Humor

A message of hope that lands with honesty and wit.

About

Adversity Doesn't Define You But Your Choices Do

My ‘BIG DREAM’ is to help you live yours. The choose yourself mission is to provide resources and perspective to empower others with the ability to strip down of the societal conditioning in order to identify their unique gift then monetize their gift by adding value to humanity.

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Years Experience

Age Groups

25-34
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35-44
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45-54
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Audience AndDemographics

From growing up in a whirlwind of challenges to building the healthiest, happiest version of myself, I share my story to help students see that they, too, can turn setbacks into comebacks and create a life they’re proud of.
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Speaking Fee Info

The Best Signature Talk Topics

The Audience will be inspired to face challenges head-on, develop healthy habits, and most importantly, learn to laugh a little at life along the way because you can’t think negative if you’re laughing.

Choose Yourself

Teaching students how to embrace accountability, navigate challenges, and create a foundation for balanced living using the Choose Yourself Process. The "Foundation"

Resilience Through Reflection

Sharing personal stories of overcoming loss, addiction, and setbacks to show students how to reflect on their struggles and use them as stepping stones to success.

Inner Peace = World Peace

Highlighting the importance of self-investment, mindfulness, and contribution to create a positive impact on their audience, family, and community.

Best Speaking Topics

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Average Impressions

225K

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Average Reach

Why Choose Me?

When I didn’t make it pro in sports, I spiraled. Partying became my life until I filled that void with fitness. Lesson? Addiction is just an empty space looking for purpose-fill it wisely.
Following are the points which makes me different from others:

Multiple sports injuries

Apparently, I thought I was bionic. Turns out, I'm not, but those surgeries taught me how to "innercise" my mind when my body couldn't keep up.

Genetics Tried It, But I Said No

Both my parents struggled with addiction, but I proved that DNA isn't destiny in the beginning. Just because you inherit a recipe doesn't mean you have to cook it

Raised by a Single Mom

Growing up with a single mother who was an addict taught me the power of self-reliance

Loss of My Brother at 16

Losing my little brother at a young age taught me the ultimate life hack: no breath is guaranteed, so don't waste yours. (And yes, that includes holding it when you're mad at your siblings.)

Quitting Sports and a Full-Ride Scholarship

Grief hit me hard for 7 years due to suppression. I quit everything my senior year and walked away from a full scholarship. Looking back, I realize the importance of grieving properly-and knowing when to ask for help instead of pretending you're fine.

Starting My Own Business

Today, I run a company (Choose Yourself LLC) helping others embrace their authenticity and build their mind, body, and brand while leading the Choose Yourself Movement. Spoiler alert: it's the healthiest and happiest I've ever been.

20-Year Probation

At 19, one wrong choice landed me on 20 years of probation for my first crime ever. Thankfully, good behavior and persistence got it dropped 9 years early. Moral of the story? Control your emotions, because the system is more about paperwork than personal growth

College Dropout Turned Graduate

I dropped out due to injury and chased partying over purpose- life, then decided to finish at my own pace. Life's lesson? It's never too late to prioritize your future-and sometimes your biggest party should be your graduation.

Choose Yourself Process

From growing up in a whirlwind of challenges to building the healthiest, happiest version of myself, I share my story to help audience see that they, too, can turn setbacks into comebacks and create a life they’re proud of.

Turning Point

Recognizing the life events that spark the need for change.

Evaluate Your Environment

Identifying what supports growth versus what hinders it then understanding Mindful Consumption on 5 levels (all 5 senses)

Customize Your Foundation

Building a flexible foundational routine that nurtures the mind, body, and spirit.

Self-Investment

Committing time, energy, and resources to your own personal development.

Creation and Contribution

Using your growth and gifts to contribute back to your family, friends and community.

Testimonial

My Clients Say

Brian Coleman
Brian Coleman

Founder Of A Heart 2 Help

His blend of storytelling and comedic timing kept me engaged from beginning to end. I can't recommend him highly enough for any speaking engagement. I even follow his Instagram channel for his uplifting messages and poetic style of inspiration!

Rachel Karry
Rachel Karry

Project Manager

Hakeem McFarlane brought an unparalleled energy and authenticity to the Kindr Summit. His ability to connect with the audience was remarkable, weaving his personal journey with empowering messages of resilience, self-discovery, and kindness.

Laura Ferguson
Laura Ferguson

College Student

Hakeem's keynote inspired attendees to embrace the power of choosing themselves, igniting a deeper sense of purpose and possibility in everyone present. His vibrant presence during breakout sessions-left a lasting impression.

Bennett Miller
Bennett Miller

HR Coordinator

Hakeem's authenticity, charisma, and actionable insights made him a standout speaker, and his impact continued to resonate long after the event concluded. And we look forward to witnessing the continued influence of his powerful message.

Jalen James Acosta
Jalen James Acosta

CEO Of World Artists United

Hakeem was a game-changer at the Kindr Summit. His authenticity and passion captivated the audience, leaving us motivated to take action in our own lives. His message of choosing yourself is one I'll carry with me for a long time. A truly inspiring speaker

Book Me For Your School

Let’s work together to empower your students to overcome adversity, build resilience, and choose themselves. I’m available for:

Contact Me For Amazing Experiences

Hakeem McFarlane’s speaking fee ranges from $1,000 to $5,000, depending on the scope of the event. He also offers a scalable fee system to accommodate organizations on a budget. For booking inquiries, please contact his agent: Sarena Cowles on
Email: sarena@worldartistsunited.com.
We look forward to collaborating with you!
Let’s work together to empower your students to overcome adversity, build resilience, and choose themselves.
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